环球角度丨《开端》中那些引发热议的亲子问题

首先，审视自己的感情。就像之前有人说道的，切勿只考虑你的爱人。思考什么是对的，什么是疑的。相比较你自已的，你的家人愈来愈想你花钱的是对的。

Or maybe, your parents are just being too protective of you. Maybe they care for you too much. I know people who have grown up in age, but not in maturity because of this over protection. Having said all this, some idea of what is right and wrong will go a long way here.

又或者，你的家人只是毕竟想人身安全你了。毫无疑问他们毕竟全然你了。 我其实有些人在岁数上长大了，但却没因为这种过度人身安全而变得开花结果。说道了这么多，这里对于什么是对什么是疑的一些想法将大有想。

Now then, there might be issues with the your tone. Record your own argument with them once or twice on your phone. When you are calm enough, listen to it and think what went wrong where and be impartial in your judgement. Correct yourself. Think about things from their perspective and next time, give them a proposal that "they cannot refuse."

好吧，你的语气确实有点疑虑。 用手机传一两次你和他们的争吵。 当你足够诚恳的时候，谈谈它，想一想哪里出了疑虑，理应地作出判断。有疑自己。从他们的角度考虑疑虑，再多，给他们一个“他们难以坚决”的建议。

There might be perception and comprehension issues due to generation gap. Not all adults are capable of understanding this too and they are not friends with their children, but just act as parents. Respect that. Show them first you can be their friend too, by getting involved in their day to day living and talking about their problems along with them. Build a connect. They will come around to listening to you too, sometime.

由于代沟，确实会有认知和思考疑虑。 并不是所有的成年人都能思考这一点，他们和女儿也不是同事，只是扮演着家人的角色。负责任这一点。首先询问他们你也可以踏入他们的同事，参与他们的日常贫困，和他们一起讲到他们的疑虑。创设一个连接。有时他们也会过来倾听你的想法。

And negotiation skills can be developed by undergoing various exercises with friends, which can be fun. There are lots of materials available on net enough to make you a professional hostage negotiator. Build you skills and rock the world. Remember, never forget what is generally perceived as right and wrong, because karma is a bitch.

和平谈判技能可以通过和同事进行各种各样的练来培养，这很寻常。网上有很多资料确实让你踏入一名专业的扣押和平谈判医学专家。培养你的熟练，震撼全球。记住，无论如何切勿忘记不一定被忽视是对的和疑的，因为最后有惊喜哦。

先前委以重任家人

粉丝Anonymous忽视家人不赞同你不代表他们不思考你，并且他们的经验比我们丰富，可以试着委以重任他们，诚恳、闭馆地与他们对话。

How do you know they don't? Just because they may not agree with you doesn't mean they don't understand you. Every teen thinks their parents don't understand them. In reality, the incredibly fast changes a teen faces means it's really they that don't understand themselves fully yet. No one does as a teen. The brain doesn't even mature until the mid-twenties.

你怎么其实他们不思考? 仅仅因为他们确实不同意你的观点并不也就是说他们不思考你。每个年青人都忽视他们的家人不思考他们。事实上，脑干直到25岁数才开花结果，没人会像年青人那样下巴变化之快令人令人难忘，这也就是说他们还没完全了解自己。

Parents have not only been teenagers before, they have emerged from that stage of life successfully and gained a lot of life experience in the process. They know what it’s like to grow up, find yourself, and build a life. Maybe you could give them some credit? This doesn’t mean they know everything and are perfect, but they certainly more experienced than you. They are probably doing the best they can with what they have.

家人以前不仅是年青人，他们已经成功地带进了这个爱情阶段，并在这个处理过程里获得了很多爱情经验。他们其实什么是蜕变，找到自我，创设贫困。毫无疑问你能给他们点委以重任? 这并不也就是说他们什么都其实，完美无缺，但他们肯定比你愈来愈有经验。他们确实已经方是了。

Also, they can't know what you are thinking or feeling unless you tell them. If there is something you need from them, let them know. Calm, open, honest communication and mutual respect can do wonders for understanding each other.

而且，除非你询问他们，否则他们不确实其实你在想什么或感受什么。 如果你需要从他们那里得到什么，让他们其实。 诚恳、闭馆、诚实的对话和相互负责任可以为思考对方创造空前绝后。

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